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A Memoir Writer’s First Year in Blogging Adventure by Marian Beaman

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler with Marian Beaman/@martabeaman

 

“I don’t really know how things will turn out until I start making them. They don’t always look like I thought they would, so sometimes I’m surprised.” Lifewriting Author and Teacher Sharon Lippincott from her post “Discover by Doing”.

 

I am thrilled to feature Memoir Writer Marian Beaman in this guest post about her first year in blogging.  She has some interesting ideas about what inspires her blog posts, a term she calls “blogspiration.” Marian describes herself as ” a plain Mennonite girl who turned fancy while seeking a simpler life.” 

Marian and I met through fellow Mennonite memoirist Shirley Showalter. It is truly wonderful to meet new people through each other. Marian is working on her first memoir, Plain and Fancy Girl.

 

Welcome, Marian!

 

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Memoir Writer and Blogger Marian Beaman

 

My First Year in Blogging Adventure

Like Alice in Wonderland, alternately perplexed and pleased, my one-year-old adventure into the blog world of writing has been full of surprises.

 

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Alice in Wonderland

 

 

In the above quote, Author Sharon Lippincott was quoting her eight-year-old granddaughter Sarah who “was talking about the clothespin doll she was wrapping in  a scrap of cloth. . . but she could have been talking about writing.”

 

Writing for me is a craft too, much like stitching together pieces of a quilt. But it is also an art, beginning with thoughts that, on the best of days, flow from my mind to my fingers and finally onto the page.

 

How I Find “Blogspiration”

Two Streams:

 

Generally, inspiration for blog post topics and development of posts comes to me in two disparate ways:

 

1. Spontaneous/even serendipitous which accounts for less than 10% of my posts and

2. Thoroughly planned, hammered out mini-essays that make up the bulk of my blog post writing.

 

This past January, examples of each process type appeared side by side on my blog:

 

1. War & Peace – Rhyme and Reason     I remembered a poem I had written about the Gulf War in 1991, and  then heard Diane Rehm on NPR interview former Sec. of Defense Robert Gates, creating a tie-in with the theme of the poem.

 

Although I was not going to write a treatise on war and peace, I wanted to show both viewpoints, so the post became a brief 384-word blog post with questions posed at the end. Actually, this post turned into a lightening rod for discussion with readers expressing deeply held beliefs, pro and con. You may ask, what would one expect with the incendiary topic of WAR! What, indeed. I was surprised at how quickly this post came together.

 

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Script War and Peace

 

2. Mennonite and Race: A Longenecker Lens    Months ago in PA I visited my aunt’s bedroom now unoccupied because she has moved to a retirement community. On the wall, I saw the picture of a trio of women, one black and two white sitting together over a card game. At the time, I thought I would use the picture in a blog post but I couldn’t pinpoint exactly when.

 

After I decided to link ethnicity and Mennonite beliefs, I thought I might start with this framed picture, but instead I ended up discussing childhood experiences in our family in the beginning and at the end used a reference to the picture. For me, elements of a piece often flip-flop, playing musical chairs.

 

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Mennonite/Race pre-writing process

 

Generally, after the decision of topic has been settled, blog posts begin as WORD documents, which I copy/paste into WordPress. This time I felt especially bold and began writing directliy in WordPress, but because of the restrictions of WP formatting, I felt myself fighting my own words, so I reversed the process, reverting to my usual method of typing the Word document first and then filling in the content in WordPress. I observed the “flow” return, and a 707-word post was born.

 

I was surprised at how long it took to write and revise this blog post.

 

 

How I Find Topics: Creation and Evolution:

 

Generally, I like to brainstorm for multiple future topics, so I don’t constantly have to obsess over the question “What am I going to write about now?” Then, on a legal-size sheet of paper, I chart a long-range plan with the proposed topics, just ideas in my head moments earlier.

 

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Brainstorming blog post ideas

 

My thematic categories in blog writing are varied. Last February I started writing “Plain and Fancy Girl” with the singular intent of sharing my childhood memories as a Mennonite girl growing up in Lancaster County, (nostalgic and memoir-ish) but then my categories expanded as I continued writing to include wisdom from grandchildren, my Southern friends, and contemporary happenings in the media that relate to topics my readers have come to expect from me.

Thus, I say this: Anything can become grist for the writing mill though I tend to stick to these main ones: Mennonite lore/history, family stories from my childhood, current events, even recipes.

 

Triggers for Topics: Photos from dozens of family scrapbooks, stories shared with my mother, sisters, other relatives, childhood memories drifting through my mind, often unbidden, something I heard on NPR, an event attended.

 

 

 

Beyond the Blog

Last fall after having purchased Nina Amir’s How to Blog a Book, I took her suggestion of grouping blog posts into similar themes by color on sticky notes. Somehow I thought that exercise would be the magic wand that would inform the “narrative arc” for a full-fledged book. Oh, well! The large wooden board with the multi-colored stickies is still in my study area, looking back at me with the mystery and enigma of a Sphynx. But someday. . . .

 

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Storyboarding book ideas

 

As one wise eight-year-old girl has said, “I don’t really know how things will turn out until I start making them. They don’t always look like I thought they would, so sometimes I’m surprised.”

 

I love the surprise of writing, I absolutely love it!

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Thank you Marian for sharing the ways you tap into your creativity to generate blog posts and write your memoir. I love the term “blogspiration.” I have found that just about anything can trigger ideas. All we have to do is look around and say “I feel a blog post coming on!”  I like how you have a clear idea of your message (brand), yet are able to adapt the material to current or historical events. These posts may very well be seeds for your memoir.

Congratulations on your first year of blogging!

 

Author’s Bio:

 

Marian Longenecker Beaman’s life has been characterized by re-invention: Pennsylvania Mennonite girl becomes traveling artist’s wife in Florida, then English professor with credits in the Journal of the Forum on Public Policy published by Oxford University Press. Along with my work as a community activist leading a neighborhood to take on Wal-Mart expansion, I am a writer and blogger in this second phase of my career. Fitness training and Pilates classes at the gym have become a metaphor for my mind-flexing experience as a writer, mining stories from my past along with reflections on current events.

Contact Information:

 

Facebook: www.facebook/marian.beaman/

 

Twitter: www.twitter.com/martabeaman

 

Website: http://plainandfancygirl.com

 

 

How about you? How do you find “blogspiration”? 

 

We’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

Next Week:

Monday, 3/24/14:  “Narrative Medicine and the Fine Art of Listening: A Memoir Moment.”

 

 

 

 

 

The Memoir Network’s Blog Carnival: What Memoir Writers Have in Common with Sculptors

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler

Author’s Note: I am honored to be presenting this previous post as part of  Denis Ledoux’s The Memoir Network’s Blog Carnival in preparation for “November is Lifewriting  Month” (NILM):

 

“Every block of stone has a statue inside it and it is the task of the sculptor to discover it.” Michelangelo

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Photo Credit: Rock uploaded from istockphoto

As I look at my pile of stories waiting to be shaped into a memoir, I find myself pondering the task.

 

I’ve come to the conclusion that memoir writers are really like sculptors.

*  We start with an amorphous pile of vignettes like a sculptor starts with a slab of marble.

*   We spend endless hours looking at the pile before us and envisioning what its final shape will be.

*   We study our craft ahead of time so we know where to start, what tools to use and how to keep going.

*    We keep digging and carving into our pile until it begins to take shape.

 

A sculptor starts with a slab of marble and a vision. We start with a collection of stories, generated by various methods. Here are a few I have learned and used:

1.  Identifying turning points (Linda Joy Myers) listing key life events along a timeline.

2 Mind mapping – a hand-sketched or software-generated diagram of ideas and events.

3.” Place I’ve Lived” exercise (Jerry Waxler) – compilation of “scene pops” from describing all the homes you have lived in.

4.  “The Tree of  Me” Exercise (Sharon Lippincott) a drawing of concentric circles rippling from the core of you, resembling the rings of a tree. Each ring represents a significant date and events. From this visual, threads and patterns can be  identified.  As you can see from mine, it can get convoluted and cluttered:

My "Tree of Me" drawing
My “Tree of Me” drawing

My “Tree of Me” drawing

5.   Patchwork Quilt- think of your story as a patchwork quilt with each square representing a scene in the story. You start out by collecting the squares until you are ready to sew them into a pattern.

There is debate in writing circles about approaches to story structure called Planner or Pantser. 

Do you work from an outline (planner) or do you “fly by the seat of your pants” (pantser)?

For the purposes of defining story structure, I am a planner.

When I  reached the point of readiness to pull my stories together into a first draft, I had a general sense of my story, I wanted to leave myself open to new discoveries as I sifted, sorted, rearranged the pieces and envisioned where my story would take me. I’d heard that one shouldn’t even worry about the beginning or end until the rewrite, the next step after the first draft.

Dave Hood, Author of Find Your Creative Muse blog describes narrative structure in creative nonfiction  as “the sequence of events and the way in which a writer tells the story,” citing a variety of  frameworks that can be used.

Linda Joy Myers points out that “a memoir is a story, created and constructed with skill and focus” and requires a “story structure and narrative arc that includes three acts of dramatic structure.” She goes on to reinforce the importance of identifying “your main meaning of your story, what the book is about in one sentence (pitch) and what will the reader gain from reading your story.” Show the transformation.

 Rachelle Gardner brings up the importance of writing “real-world stories with a plot, scenes with action and dialogue rather than chronicling a series of devastating emotional events. Make sure your book has a protagonist with a choice to face (a conflict), obstacles to overcome, a desired outcome and consequences (the stakes) if the goal is not reached.”

Memoirist Meghan Ward emphasizes the importance of having a strong story arc early on as you write.

Like a sculptor needs carving tools to shape a creation, I needed a plan to fit my story into, keeping the above goals in mind about story and theme:

Annie Lamott spread her papers in a trail on the floor and rearranged them until they made sense to her as described in her writing instruction bookBird by Bird.

Stephen King described his office space as covered in post-it notes with ideas and phrases in his memoir, On Writing.

David Price advises that “you won’t see what the story is actually about until you’re at the end” in his book, The Pixar Touch and cites the following framework for storytelling:

“Once upon a time there was…Every day… One day…Because of that…Because of that…Until finally…”

Joseph Campbell believes we are all on a mythic journey, a “Hero’s Journey.” His framework recognizes a triggering event that propels the hero into action through” the dark night of the soul” where many obstacles must be overcome until resolution /transformation is achieved.  Enjoy this YouTube video.

Author and Writing Coach Mary Carroll Moore uses the W Storyboard Structure which provides the framework for  plotting out the story in the shape of a W, using three acts, starting with the triggering event going to the first turning point, building to a climax, second turning point then moving forward toward resolution/realization/transformation. She reviews it in more detail here.

Storyboarding is the method I had chosen to start sculpting my story. I began by writing vignette summaries on colored post-it notes and placing them on a trifold poster board for Acts One, Two and Three, incorporating key points from Mary Carroll’s W Storyboard Structure and Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey framework.

Mapping out my story on a storyboard using" W Story Structure" by Mary Carroll Moore
Mapping out my story on a storyboard using” W Story Structure” by Mary Carroll Moore

 

“In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely apparition to reveal it to other eyes as mine sees it.”  Michelangelo

 

 

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Photo Credit: “Michelangelo’s Pieta” by Allie Caulfield uploaded from Flickr Creative Commons

Like the master sculptor, Michelangelo, we all need tools to “hew away the rough walls” that would imprison the “lovely apparition” of the story we need to tell.

 

How about you? Have you envisioned your masterpiece?

 

What methods have you used to discover your story? What methods appeal to you?

 

I’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

 

Announcement: Congratulations, Louise Mathewson! Your name was selected in a random drawing of commenters to receive Shirley Showalter’s memoir, Blush.

 

This Week:

Wednesday, October 9: ” How I Found My Memoir Searching for My Roots”, a guest post by Paige Strickland.

Friday, October 11: “Memoir Writing Tips by Denis Ledoux: Describing Characters in a Memoir Can be Easy Enough.”

 

 

 

From Blog to Book: An Interview with Sharon Lippincott

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler with Sharon Lippincott/@ritergal

 

Don’t tell me the moon is shining. Show me the glint of light on broken glass.” Anton Chekov

 

I am thrilled to interview author and writing coach Sharon Lippincott on how she turned blog posts into a marketable e-book and paperback.  Sharon and I met in 2009 through The National Association of Memoir Writers(NAMW) and have been following each other ever since.

Her recently released e-book and paperback, The Heart and Craft of Writing Compelling Descriptions, is rapidly gaining international attention as an excellent resource for writers from many genres who want to take their writing to a deeper level. My reviews are on Amazon and Goodreads.

Welcome back, Sharon!

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Life  Story and Memoir Writing Coach and Author Sharon Lippincott

 

 

KP:     Please tell us about your book, The Heart and Craft of Writing Compelling Descriptions.

 

SL:      The book is a compilation of forty-eight blog posts relating to description writing. Collectively, they cover the gamut from using adjectives to pruning dead “would.” Several posts include tips for widening windows of awareness and using vocabulary you already have. These tips will add zest to your writing and life in general.

 

KP:     Your The Heart and Craft of Lifewriting blog posts are always rich in descriptive details so I’m not surprised you have packaged them so effectively into a book.

What made you decide to tackle this ambitious and creative project?

 

SL:      Three years ago I compiled a shorter anthology of posts about description and on a whim I thought I could pop that into a .99 Kindle book “in about three hours.” I immediately ran into snags. All my blog posts include images, and those proved to be a huge challenge in eBook format. The simple solution took weeks to discover.

Meanwhile I discovered two dozen additional posts and all forty-eight needed editing. Thank goodness for my awesome writing group buddies!. More writer friends kept my feet to the fire until the cover worked. With the additional posts, the book was long enough to justify a print version, and the rest is history.

 

KP:     I know your knowledge and skill with the technical aspects of being an author have come about from your sheer determination and initiative to master the how-to’s.  I have known you to be very generous with sharing what you have learned with others.

What tips on learning the technology would you share for those of us who may not have the same “technical fortitude” as you to take on a project such as this.

 

SL:      I do love being a tour guide for segments of the writers’ journey!

 

Tip #1:  Learn to use Styles in Word and you have the keys to the publishing kingdom. Once you get the drift, you’ll see how easy it is to begin with predefined styles while writing your draft. They are mandatory for uniform layout, and if you hire someone to do that for you, your groundwork will save the designer time and you money

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YouTube has hundreds of tutorials to help you understand and use styles. Download your free copy of the Smashwords Style Guide from Smashwords.com. The process it describes works for both print and eBooks. Your time investing in learning to use styles will pay huge dividends.

 

Tip #2: Find a strong group of writing buddies and trade critiques. You’ll learn from each other, and your stories gain depth from additional perspective. Join a group online or form your own. Paid editors are great if you can afford them, but they are most valuable as icing on a cake leavened by group input.

 

KP:  Can you briefly outline the steps you took to turn your blog posts into a marketable book?

SL:      I did not follow a smooth path, but here is a list of things that must be done for any book, whether paper or pixels:

  • Select posts or stories (write content for new book).
  • Arrange anthology parts in logical order.
  • Edit! and proof-read! everything. Many times. Get help with this, whether paid or from qualified writing buddies.
  • Study published books for placement of copyright info, Table of Contents, etc.
  • Finalize design details.
  • Prepare cover.
  • Prepare promo material.

 

Here the path diverges. Save a second copy of your file before proceeding. For print prep:

 

  • Add blank pages as needed for proper layout.
  • Insert headers, footers and page numbers according to design.
  • Convert to PDF layout.

 

For eBook prep:

  • Check with Kindle and ebook consolidators like Smashwords.com for latest instructions.
  • Create new Table of Contents with hyperlinks instead of page numbers.
  • Add bookmark for TOC.
  • Save as HTML (filtered). This is optional, but recommended.

 

KP:     Are there any tips you’d like to share on marketing your book?

 

SL:      Start working on your book description when you start writing. Do NOT leave this for the last minute! Get lots of input.

Send out emails asking skilled reviewers if they are interested in receiving a review copy of your book. Do this a month or more before your planned launch date, and let them know when you want them to post (as soon as the page goes live). Ideally you want at least ten great reviews posted before you formally announce the book.

 

KP: Do you have any final thoughts you’d like to share?

 

SL:      There has never been a better time to publish. You want your book to be awesome, but don’t invest more than you can comfortably afford to lose. The reader pool size is stable, and the number of books is skyrocketing. Give it your best shot, rejoice in a monumental achievement, and be happy with whatever results you achieve.

 

Thank you , Sharon for sharing so many helpful details about turning blog posts into a book. Your expertise is greatly appreciated and your enthusiasm is contagious!

 

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Author Bio:

Sharon Lippincott is an evangelist for lifestory writing and memoir and the author of four books including The Heart and Craft of Lifestory Writing. Her most recent, The Heart and Craft of Lifestory Writing Compelling Description helps writers transform blah stories into brilliant ones.  She teaches memoir and other writing courses online and in Carnegie Mellon University and University of Pittsburgh Osher programs and cohosts the Life Writers’ Forum YahooGroup. She is founder of WE WRITE! Creative Writing University in Pittsburgh and serves on the National Association of Memoir Writers advisory board.

She blogs at http://heartandcraft.blogspot.com

email: ritergal@gmail.com

Twitter @ritergal

Amazon: http://ow.ly/k1l2U

 

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The Heart and Craft of Writing Compelling Descriptions book cover

 

Sharon has agreed to give an e-book copy of  The Heart and Craft of Writing Compelling Description, in the format of your choice, to a commenter whose name will be chosen at the end of the week in a random drawing.

 

How about you? Have you thought about turning your blog posts into a book? We’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

Announcements: 

Congratulations to Lorenzo Martinez and Audrey Chin. Lorenzo is the winner of Singing to Silence by Pam Richards and Audrey is the winner of The Woman I’ve Become, an anthology compiled by Pat Lapointe.

Congratulations to  Barbara McDowell Whitt. You are the winner of Mary Gottschalk’s memoir. Sailing Down the Moonbeam.

 

This Week:

I’ll be  over at Sarah Freeman’s blog Write by Gracewith a guest post on “God’s Grace in My Life” starting on  Tuesday, July 2.

 

Next Week: 

“The Crooked Lake: A Memoir Moment” on Monday, July 8

“Do You Recognize Your Authentic Voice?” , a guest post by #journalchat host Dawn Herring on Thursday, July 11

Writing with the Reader in Mind: Memoir Writing Tips

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler

 

“The challenge with memoir is to make it interesting to someone other than the writer.” David Colin Carr, editor

 

 

Photo Credit: "Reading is Magic" by Sodanie Chea from FlickrCreativeCommons
Photo Credit: “Reading is Magic” by Sodanie Chea from FlickrCreativeCommons

 

One of the biggest challenges in memoir writing is to turn the events in your life into a story someone else would want to read.  Writing with the reader in mind becomes an essential part of the process but I have found it does not occur in full force until the rewriting/polishing phase.

 

Keeping the reader in mind as I write my memoir is something I’m working on as I grind away after three years of writing vignettes and two rounds of professional editing by a developmental editor.

 

I am finally ready to focus on my reader.

 

 

Why now?

 

Because I  didn’t know the  true heart of our story until  I had poured out many drafts on the paper—often referred to as “sh*#! first draft or the vomit draft–just getting it on the page with no regard for editing or censoring.

 

That’s been my experience.

 

This point was brought home to me in a recent discussion on Belinda Nicoll’s blog, My Rites of Passage during her A-Z Blog Challenge. In Challenge #23: Writing Models, she  discusses paying attention to creative techniques  in the hopes of crafting a story that will be of interest to the readers. Belinda had posed the question,

 

“Do you keep your readers in mind as you write?”

 

In response to my comment that the longer I write and revise, the more I find myself writing with the readers in mind, Lifewriting Coach and Author Sharon Lippincott had replied:

 
“Kathy, your comment prefaces what I was about to write. Only you can say for sure, but I suspect your early focus was more on the personal cost of disclosure and less on how it would affect readers. Ideally, I think we all need to “write like nobody will ever see” in the beginning, then tailor down to our disclosure comfort level balanced with reader impact.”

 

Bingo!

 

Initially, I needed to pour the words on the page before I even knew what my story was. My focus was on digging and excavating.

 

Now that I have my story—the narrative arc— I can concentrate on writing with the reader in mind.

 

But I think there’s a fine line between giving the reader credit for figuring out the details and giving the right details to make it clear.

 

I have a responsibility as a writer to transport the reader into my world in a way that is grammatically correct, nicely paced, appealing to the senses and action-packed.

 

As a memoir writer, I need to offer lessons learned from life experiences so the reader will have something to take away from reading my memoir.

 

With that in mind, here are a few tips I’ve gleaned along the way to write words so the reader will be moved:

 

  • Have enough emotional distance from the life events to be able to be objective in conveying the story.

 

  • Be clear on your intention for  story and stay true to your theme throughout the story. Avoid distracting tangents. Yes, this means “killing your darlings.”

 

  • Offer reflections on the wisdom gained from life events rather than listing chronological events.

 

  • *If you are stuck on who your target audience is, try writing with one reader in mind and focus on what you want them to learn       from your story.

 

  • Read your manuscript aloud to yourself and to others to listen for inconsistencies in pacing, clarity, voice. I use a digital recorder and tape some chapters. It’s amazing what I have been able to hear when I listen to my own words.

 

  • Use a critique group and/or beta readers for objective feedback. In the end, it is your story but being open to how potential readers view your story is crucial to getting your best work out there.

 

  • Commit to excellence on all levels. Invest (as you are able) in professional services for all levels of editing, book cover design, promotion. If finances are an issue, explore creative options for funding, such as kickstarter campaigns, beta readers, sharing services with other writers.

 

 

“It matters to put your best foot forward.”  Jami Carpenter, The Red Pen Girl

 

 

Keeping the reader in mind as we build our characters and move our plot along through a series of event and actions that will keep our readers turning the pages seems like a reasonable expectation.

 

I’d like to leave you with a question Dan Blank posed in a recent post on Writers Unboxed: “Are You Giving Your Readers  Only the Minimum Amount of  Your Attention?”

 

Photo Credit:" Reading Books" from Google Free Images
Photo Credit:” Reading Books” from Google Free Images

 

 

How about you? How do you move the reader with your words? As a reader, what does it take to keep you turning the pages?

 

 

I’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

 

On Thursday, May 30: Justine Schofield, Communication Coordinator of Pubslush  a global crowdfunding publishing platform will discuss: ” Crowdfunding Your Memoir: 6 Ways to Know If Crowdfunding Is For You.”  She will give away three (3) ebook versions of Pubslush’s debut title, a memoir, a beautiful mess by Ali Berlinksi.

 

 

 Memorial Day, 2013

We remember and pray for our living and deceased veterans and thank God for the freedoms of this country.

My WWII Hero Dad Saluting the American Flag, Memorial Day,2004
My WWII Hero Dad Saluting the American Flag, Memorial Day,2004