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Growing into Country: A Memoir Moment

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler

 

 “The ultimate goal of farming is not the growing of crops, but the cultivation and perfection of human beings.”
― Masanobu FukuokaThe One-Straw Revolution

 

A few weeks ago, two of my favorite memoir friends, Shirley Showalter and Carol Bodensteiner posted a blog swap where they exchanged their delightful stories of growing up country. Stop by Shirley’s and Carol’s blogs for a treat.

 

I delved into their stories and connected with my own. I didn’t grow up country, though I often daydreamed about living on a farm as a child. I’d envision running through the open fields and chasing chickens in the yard. I also enjoyed visiting my friend Dawn’s farm where I could pet the horses and watch the cows being milked.

 

And Grandpa DiCerbo came from a pig farm in Italy and although he never had his own farm in America, he grew the biggest, freshest tomatoes in his backyard. Often times those tomatoes helped pay the rent.

 

I love country music, square dancing, fresh vegetables from the garden and wild flowers.

 

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No, I didn’t grow up country but I married a farmer-at-heart who left corporate America, and upon retirement began working the land his father and grandfather before him had raised dairy cattle on.

 

The farmer and his wife.

 

Here’s an excerpt from an essay I wrote:

 

Summer Fields

 

            My husband Wayne grows organic vegetables, herbs, berries and flowers on the 135-acre farm where his grandfather raised dairy cows. He has, for the most part, single-handedly cleared the land he worked on as a young boy. His four-acre garden is a work of art, teeming with the freshness of green produce, bursting with the vibrance of red and orange tomatoes and yellow squash, and sprinkled with the sweat of his labor.

 

            He nurtures all his produce from seeds, initially planting them in seed trays in our home in January. In March, he begins housing the seedlings in the greenhouse, manually regulating temperatures to promote survival with a space heater, bottles of hot water and  insulation panels.

 

            As soon as the springtime rains abate, he begins tilling the fields to promote permanent homes for all the tender new plants in the greenhouse. Using a crop rotation system, he systematically plants seeds in the greenhouse so the cycle of planting and harvesting continues throughout the fall.

 Bounty from the garden Photo from 2010-12-04

            Standing in a strawberry patch at 6 a.m. on a summer morning surely must be one of life’s greatest pleasures. Searching for the biggest, freshest berries to pick, I marvel at the miracle of new birth and growth. Some berries are deformed; some are over-ripe; and some are half-eaten. It seems as though the plumpest, juiciest ones are underneath them all, as if protected from the elements by caring kin. They are the prized ones. But, they are all beautiful in their varied stages of development.

 

They symbolize the cycle of life; the beauty of new birth; and the dignity of death.

 

These summer fields and all they bear are the fruits of my husband’s loving labor. From the moment he carefully plants the seeds in the trays in mid-January until he proudly displays his abundant array of fresh produce through the spring and summer, he has nurtured and promoted this predictable cycle of life. In living out this dream of connecting to his own roots, he has reached out to nurture the community he serves, and , in turn, has nurtured his own cycle of life.

 

My hat is off to my husband Wayne and to all farmers who are stewards of the land and give back to their communities.

 

Farmer's Market in actionPhoto from 2010-12-04

 

I may not have grown up country but I’ve grown into country and I love it!

 

 

How about you? Did you grow up country? If not, do you wish you had?

 

I’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

ANNOUNCEMENTS: 

Congratulations to Sonia Marsh and Mary C Gottschalk! Sonia is the winner of Theo Nestor’s book, Writing is My Drink and  Mary is the winner of Sara Connell’s book, Bringing in Finn.

 

This Week:

Thursday, 11/21: Book Tour and Giveaway for Survival Lessons by Alice Hoffman.

 

Next Week:

Monday, 11/25/13 Book Tour and Giveaway: A Life in the Day of a Lady Salesman  by Diana Cruze.

 

How a Chance Encounter Sealed My Reason for Writing Blush a “Real-Life Plain Life” Story by Shirley Showalter

Posted by Kathleen Pooler/@kathypooler with Shirley Showalter/@shirleyhs

 

” We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow man.” Herman Melville

 

I am thrilled to feature Shirley Showalter in this guest post on her new memoir, Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World. Shirley and I met online several years ago and have been following each other ever since. Her blog is an excellent writing resource as a well as a source of ongoing inspiration and motivation for writers.

 

 

On June 4, 2013,  100 days before her book publication,she launched “The 100-day Challenge”, inviting her readers to participate in a “New Beginnings Challenge” where we shared a new beginning we had experienced each day. In doing so , she led us all gently , yet enthusiastically by the hand into her own personal journey to publication.

 

My reviews of Blush can be found on Amazon and Goodreads

 

 

 

Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World Book Cover

 Excerpt of Book Description from the back cover:

“Little Shirley Hershey grew up in  a plain Mennonite home, yet she was named for a movie star. With her nose pressed to the window of the glittering world, she felt intensely the gap that existed in the 1950s and 60s between Mennonites and the larger world. This is a story of how a rosy-cheeked, barefoot Mennonite farm girl prepared to enter the glittering world and learned to do it on her own terms.”

 

Welcome , Shirley!

 

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Memoir Author Shirley Showalter

 

 

A Chance Encounter…

 

Do you believe in divine providence? Or in destiny?

 

Here’s an author/reader story that confirms my belief in both.

 

My husband picked a surprise destination for our 44th wedding anniversary: Tangier Island. To get there, we traveled by boat—the Chesapeake Breeze ferry. By chance we met another couple. Eventually the topic of my book entered the conversation.

 

Shirley’s husband Stuart waits to board the Chesapeake Breeze. He had the romantic idea of planning a surprise. “Pack your bags. We’re going to celebrate” was his only instruction.

 

I discovered that the woman in our shipmate couple loved to travel to Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, the setting for most Amish and Mennonite romances, and that she was one of the millions of readers of fiction depicting this subculture. Like many of those readers, she identified herself as an evangelical Christian.

 

I was very excited to meet her, because I wanted to know if the interest in Anabaptist (a term that includes both Amish and Mennonite) fiction translates into an interest in Anabaptist memoir. In my new friend’s case it did! She has ordered two copies of Blush, and I plan to autograph them before my publisher sends them to her. She should have them by the time you read this story.

 

Background: I had read my first Amish romance novel as I prepared to launch my childhood memoir Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World.

 

I chose Harvest of Hearts by Laura V. Hilton. The plot consists of a romance between a “drop-dead-gorgeous Amish man” Matthew Yoder and an Amish girl runaway Shanna Stoltzfus, who has to eventually choose where her true home is.

 

I chose this book because the Amish Fiction Group on Goodreads made it their selection. In my own youth I enjoyed Christian fiction, especially romance, so I understand the appeal of a love story that confirms one’s own belief system yet offers an intriguing window into a different culture – and enough conflict to make the pulse quicken.

 

In the year 2012 there were 85 Amish romances published, most of them to an excited, loyal readership. Valerie Weaver Zercher’s book Thrill of the Chaste explains the amazing growth of this publishing phenomenon. I carried Amish memoirist Saloma Miller Furlong’s review of this book on my blog, and a stimulating conversation ensued.

 

One of the many reasons I wrote Blush is that for a long time I felt a connection between the story of my childhood and the longing that brings tourists to Lancaster County (and to a half dozen other Mennonite and Amish communities, mostly in the East and Midwest). I described that longing as an element of finding my own voice as a writer in this post on Susan Weidener’s blog:

Writing to Find Authentic Voice

 

Now here’s the truly amazing part of this story. I was taking a course from marketing expert Dan Blank: Master Class :Roadmap to Readers at the time of this trip to Tangier Island. He had asked all of us writers to describe our ideal reader.

I had just constructed this picture of “Rachel,” my ideal reader.

 

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“Rachel”, my ideal reader

 

 

Now, here in front of me was a “Rachel.” She was a woman I knew I would enjoy getting to know better. As she reads and responds to my memoir, this is what I hope to learn:

 

  • Where were you moved, inspired, challenged as you read?

 

  • Who else might enjoy this book?

 

  • Where do those people congregate?

 

  • Will you help me connect with them?

 

 

Was meeting “Rachel” on the boat to Tangier a chance encounter or was it God having fun, stirring up a few waves in the Chesapeake?

 

You decide.

 

I know what my answer is.

 

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Author Bio: Shirley Hershey Showalter grew up on a Mennonite family farm near Lititz, Pennsylvania. The first person in her family to go to college, she eventually became the first woman president of Goshen College in Indiana. After six years as an executive at the Fetzer Institute, Kalamazoo, Michigan, she became a full-time writer living in Harrisonburg, Virginia.

 

Shirley can be reached at:

Twitter @Shirleyhs.

Her Facebook fan page : https://www.facebook.com/ShirleyHersheyShowalter.

Her Google + profile is here: https://plus.google.com/u/0/117720879252864367816/about

Her website

Amazon ordering link

 

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Thank you Shirley for transporting us into your publishing journey as well as into your “real -life plain life.” You have shown us how connecting with your purpose for writing helped you find your readers.

 

 

 

How about you? Who is your ideal reader? Have you ever had a chance encounter that changed your life as a writer? Do tell!

 

Shirley has graciously offered to give away a copy of Blush  to a commenter whose name will be selected in a random drawing.

 

We’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below~

 

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Stay Tuned: Every  Friday in October Memoir Author, Coach, Editor Denis Ledoux of  The Memoir Network will present  four posts on Memoir Writing Tips in preparation for “November is Life Writing Month”

10/4:   Action is Essential in Memoir Writing

10/11: Describing Characters in Memoir Can Be Easy

10/18: Establish Your Setting

10/25: Conveying Theme Effectively

 

Denis has generously offered to give away his Memoir Starter Package at the end of the series to a commenter whose name will be selected in a random drawing.

 

Next Week:

Monday, October 7:  I will be participating in The Memoir Network Blog Carnival with “What Memoir Writers Have in Common with Sculptors.”

 

Wednesday, October 9: Memoir Author Paige Strickland will discuss ” How I Found my Memoir While Searching For My Roots” in conjunction with the release of her memoir, Akin to the Truth: A Memoir of Adoption and Identity.

 

Friday, October 11: Memoir Writing Tips byDenis Ledoux as above.